According to lovehappens.com, my profile is 99% compatible with my
match preferences. Apparently the fact that I am seeking a woman
constitutes only 1% of my total criteria. I must have a lot more to
learn about relationships than I thought.
You're searching for a being, Red, the only difference between a man and a women is a bit of extra stuff around the hips (or a lack thereof), and some glands. This can be a big difference, but generally, consider this.
If you had been of another sex, what would have been different about your life, assuming generally the same mind-set, with some or many of the details changable.